To be honest that kind of idiot was waiting to get his fortune stolen from him. Probably in the majority of cases things work out better for both sides. I mean Americans and Europeans have money poor people have sometimes beauty so people exchange it. I don’t mind that
I don’t think Olya is exploiting Brett. She is, in fact, going on the trip. It’s on Brett if he doesn’t get what he didn’t articulate as the catch of being flown out.
If it wasn’t for Schadenfreude I wouldn’t have no Freude at all.
I’d say there was one born every minute but the 1% doesn’t have that high a birthrate. Olya is only one of the many cottage industries that exist to take the easy money of the privileged with disposable income, big egos and only middling intelligence.
If fly-in girls are more abundant, that means they have less leverage. If Bretts are relatively rare, why does he have to put up with fly-in girls who leave him on read?
Women put in the effort to look good in a bikini because they like sex. If she's on Instagram, she likes the idea of fucking glamorous men. Why *wouldn't* she want to get it on with Brett? Are you telling me that she stays celibate for the entire stay? And Brett does the same thing every summer without ever getting laid?
The problem with Bretts is that they are impatient and arrogant. If they tried a slower roll, like an actual coffee date with just one woman, and pursued her with empathy and patience his conversion rate would rise.
But Bretts come in so hot out of the gate and make these grand gestures of flying women (usually multiple) to exotic places that these women often actually think they’re just being invited to a lavish party. Then they get there, and the Bretts make a move and the women are like, “slow down - you invited me to a party and I met you like 7 hours ago.”
As the Supremes famously sang in 1966, *you can’t hurry love*.
This was hilarious and the first thing I've read in 20 years that treated these women like the intelligent adults they are instead of children being preyed on by older adults lol. Very often these men get nothing
In the age of digital feudalism, where Instagram grids replace dynastic portraits and villas become stages for transactional theatre, the Fly-In Girl Economy isn’t just a niche - it’s a mirror. A mirror that reflects a world where desire is algorithmic, validation is outsourced, and the illusion of intimacy is financed by legacy wealth chasing relevance.
But beneath the gloss - beneath the matcha cups and jet trails - is a quiet, unspoken truth: the more one pays for presence, the less they receive of essence. The Bretts are not just buyers; they are symbols of a fading aristocracy attempting to buy what cannot be bought - time, youth, spontaneity, connection. And the women? Many are economists in stilettos, acutely aware that the real power isn't on the plane, but in the pause before they reply.
Everyone is playing a game they secretly want out of, but the code is written in emojis, bikinis, and unread DMs.
This isn’t romance. It’s portfolio management disguised as proximity.
So it follows that real wealth is beauty and youth, not money. Brett’s have money and yachts but broke hot young people portray the rich lifestyle better on Insta
I’m afraid you’re going to hate the piece I’m just about to publish about the NYC mayoral race aimed at Zohran Mamdani, a democratic socialist. I’d genuinely love your take on it.
Anti-capitalist? This is a capitalist pop song. Brett is using his capital to find love— instead of trolling bars for gold diggers he flies them to his door. And when two people find each other, cuz Who Knows? Then he’s holding up a boombox to get Natasha thigh gap to grace his hangar always. Tale as old as time…
I don’t know, you seem to have ‘capitalism’ conflated with various other ideas. Perhaps that’s a generational thing. If you are saying that the situation would not occur in a socialist or communist country… Honey, that really just ain’t it. There are about 60 million men in China, who engage in similar activities.
I love the level of debate about this but I also feel like what I wrote isn’t worthy of serious discussion. It was just a bit of season fun, since it’s now the time of year when doughy older white dudes try to ply young beautiful women with villas in Puglia. Thank you all the same for reading :)
When I was living in Moscow, I met a woman at a friend's party who claimed she was a model but she'd done like one fashion show. She was about 23, and scorchingly hot. Girl next door who's way out of your league kind of natural beauty.
She showed me her instagram, so i followed it. She was always posting photos in exotic beach locations or expensive world cities like Miami, Milan, Monaco, NYC, Paris, etc., but no man was ever in the shot. I figured out pretty quick that she was a fly-in girl or a sugar baby, one of the two, and whoever was sponsoring her absolutely did not want to be in any photos. This is very typical of the truly rich guys who keep their lives out of the public.
Eventually her sugar daddy committed to her, or she became a well-pampered mistress, because all of a sudden she was posting photos from the same very expensive house in Switzerland and talking about her impending motherhood, followed by photos of her baby a few months later, and then photos of her on expensive vacations with her baby, then toddler, then another baby. As always, no man ever in the photos.
She was a nice person, as far as I could tell when I met her. I think she was kind of like one of those quiet assassins though. I've met the sparkleponies at Burning Man, and she didn't fit that mold at all. She was far more subdued. She wasn't posting slutty photos or barely concealed box/butt/boob shots. Most of her photos were tasteful, even when she was in a bikini. I think her whole vibe was "I'm beautiful and elegant, but I'm not arrogant about it and I know how to be discrete."
😂 The archetype is ancient, you are correct. It’s just plain as day in our faces now and wears the disguise of success in the form of likes/engagement. I think role models are getting worse and worse for young women as a result.
> the general rule of thumb is that Bretts with a .1% net worth have a .1% chance of having sex with a fly-in girl, and the chances of a Brett with a .01% net worth improve to 1%.
I seriously doubt that... Especially since those Bretts could just switch to downright call girls if they aren't getting any under those fly-girl arrangements. Sounds more like of the idea someone would have about Bretts to be able to make those fly-girls more manipulative entrepener-ey and less for-sale.
Agreed. I can’t imagine this continuing if the odds are this bad. “Mid dude with unearned money” isn’t the same as “total fucking retard unable to learn from experience.” I also don’t doubt that these dudes do get scammed a good amount.
Another thing I can’t imagine, is that these types of girls are even really bothered by letting these dudes grind on them for 2-5 minutes every other night or whatever. How many 45 year old libidos are even that high anymore? If these chicks are mercenary enough to play hardball on negotiations, I doubt they feel the need to guard their pussies that closely. Also, it sounds less awkward than trying to spend an entire vacation avoiding the guy who flew her out lol. I’ve seen chicks fuck for a lot less than vacations.
I’m shocked by how accurate the description of Brett tracks. In my experience, Brett will pay 💰 for the smallest validation. And assume you love him. After one conversation. Unfortunately, no amount of money is worth putting up with a Brett’s obnoxious personality.
Good for Olya and her micro economics - say what you like but these women understand a lot more about the world than most of us.
You got one of the key points of the piece. Thank you for reading!
There's a 𝘣𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘧 𝘶𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘺 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘦 on that package.
If this is as mysoginist as I read it, I suggest you delete your comment.
There's even a whiff of social justice in her machinations. Can't be mad
😂 no lie
To be honest that kind of idiot was waiting to get his fortune stolen from him. Probably in the majority of cases things work out better for both sides. I mean Americans and Europeans have money poor people have sometimes beauty so people exchange it. I don’t mind that
So we should discourage men from being idiots
That’s like discouraging water from being wet
They can just be smarter and demand more value from prostitutes.
Ehhh let’s not call Olya a prostitute. The whole point of the piece is that she isn’t.
She is arguably worse than that. Hookers fuck you for cash, this girl is a scam
So from men’s perspective isn’t she worse than an escort?
I don’t care. Everyone should be allowed to be an idiot
You are so happy that women exploit men
False.
I don’t think Olya is exploiting Brett. She is, in fact, going on the trip. It’s on Brett if he doesn’t get what he didn’t articulate as the catch of being flown out.
I want speaking for anyone else. Terrible attempt at an insult, bro.
It’s just schadenfreud to imagine that Brett never gets any.
If it wasn’t for Schadenfreude I wouldn’t have no Freude at all.
I’d say there was one born every minute but the 1% doesn’t have that high a birthrate. Olya is only one of the many cottage industries that exist to take the easy money of the privileged with disposable income, big egos and only middling intelligence.
I agree. The author writes:
"Fly-in girls are far more abundant"
If fly-in girls are more abundant, that means they have less leverage. If Bretts are relatively rare, why does he have to put up with fly-in girls who leave him on read?
Women put in the effort to look good in a bikini because they like sex. If she's on Instagram, she likes the idea of fucking glamorous men. Why *wouldn't* she want to get it on with Brett? Are you telling me that she stays celibate for the entire stay? And Brett does the same thing every summer without ever getting laid?
The problem with Bretts is that they are impatient and arrogant. If they tried a slower roll, like an actual coffee date with just one woman, and pursued her with empathy and patience his conversion rate would rise.
But Bretts come in so hot out of the gate and make these grand gestures of flying women (usually multiple) to exotic places that these women often actually think they’re just being invited to a lavish party. Then they get there, and the Bretts make a move and the women are like, “slow down - you invited me to a party and I met you like 7 hours ago.”
As the Supremes famously sang in 1966, *you can’t hurry love*.
Thank you for reading and commenting!
Again, I'm just not sure that the women who post bikini pics on Instagram, and fly out for an exotic rich guy they met online, think like you do.
You can DM me some bikini pics of your own to prove that you understand their mentality, I suppose. Will probably leave them on read though.
This was hilarious and the first thing I've read in 20 years that treated these women like the intelligent adults they are instead of children being preyed on by older adults lol. Very often these men get nothing
I’m so happy you got the point. Thank you so much for reading.
A dry handjob with the right while she scrolls her phone with the left.
Brett would be super stoked
Oh, they get plenty…. Of fantasies
In the age of digital feudalism, where Instagram grids replace dynastic portraits and villas become stages for transactional theatre, the Fly-In Girl Economy isn’t just a niche - it’s a mirror. A mirror that reflects a world where desire is algorithmic, validation is outsourced, and the illusion of intimacy is financed by legacy wealth chasing relevance.
But beneath the gloss - beneath the matcha cups and jet trails - is a quiet, unspoken truth: the more one pays for presence, the less they receive of essence. The Bretts are not just buyers; they are symbols of a fading aristocracy attempting to buy what cannot be bought - time, youth, spontaneity, connection. And the women? Many are economists in stilettos, acutely aware that the real power isn't on the plane, but in the pause before they reply.
Everyone is playing a game they secretly want out of, but the code is written in emojis, bikinis, and unread DMs.
This isn’t romance. It’s portfolio management disguised as proximity.
I love this take
Economists in stilettos is a great line. 👏
So it follows that real wealth is beauty and youth, not money. Brett’s have money and yachts but broke hot young people portray the rich lifestyle better on Insta
Nice perspective. I'd never refer to Bretts as aristocracy but OK- I get your point on inherited money.
This article is the perfect blend of economic analysis, anti-capitalist critique, and extra hot tea. We love to see it.
You’re my favorite.
😍😍
I’m afraid you’re going to hate the piece I’m just about to publish about the NYC mayoral race aimed at Zohran Mamdani, a democratic socialist. I’d genuinely love your take on it.
Ooh I’d love to read it! Do send over when it’s up
😻😻
Careful…He may try flying you to Capri lol
In case the lol wasn’t obvious… I kid of course
Anti-capitalist? This is a capitalist pop song. Brett is using his capital to find love— instead of trolling bars for gold diggers he flies them to his door. And when two people find each other, cuz Who Knows? Then he’s holding up a boombox to get Natasha thigh gap to grace his hangar always. Tale as old as time…
Lol yes and the article is quite obviously a very thinly veiled critique of the whole dance
I don’t know, you seem to have ‘capitalism’ conflated with various other ideas. Perhaps that’s a generational thing. If you are saying that the situation would not occur in a socialist or communist country… Honey, that really just ain’t it. There are about 60 million men in China, who engage in similar activities.
I love the level of debate about this but I also feel like what I wrote isn’t worthy of serious discussion. It was just a bit of season fun, since it’s now the time of year when doughy older white dudes try to ply young beautiful women with villas in Puglia. Thank you all the same for reading :)
Capitalism is a broad word. Women selling themselves is not not under the realm
Of capitalism. But it doesn’t define it. Other than a lot of behaviours can be allowed under it.
Hardly. This is a grade school intramural compared to how the communists play this game.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-kgUlwXX60Y
When I was living in Moscow, I met a woman at a friend's party who claimed she was a model but she'd done like one fashion show. She was about 23, and scorchingly hot. Girl next door who's way out of your league kind of natural beauty.
She showed me her instagram, so i followed it. She was always posting photos in exotic beach locations or expensive world cities like Miami, Milan, Monaco, NYC, Paris, etc., but no man was ever in the shot. I figured out pretty quick that she was a fly-in girl or a sugar baby, one of the two, and whoever was sponsoring her absolutely did not want to be in any photos. This is very typical of the truly rich guys who keep their lives out of the public.
Eventually her sugar daddy committed to her, or she became a well-pampered mistress, because all of a sudden she was posting photos from the same very expensive house in Switzerland and talking about her impending motherhood, followed by photos of her baby a few months later, and then photos of her on expensive vacations with her baby, then toddler, then another baby. As always, no man ever in the photos.
She was a nice person, as far as I could tell when I met her. I think she was kind of like one of those quiet assassins though. I've met the sparkleponies at Burning Man, and she didn't fit that mold at all. She was far more subdued. She wasn't posting slutty photos or barely concealed box/butt/boob shots. Most of her photos were tasteful, even when she was in a bikini. I think her whole vibe was "I'm beautiful and elegant, but I'm not arrogant about it and I know how to be discrete."
There’s definitely a 2x2 matrix to be created of opportunistic hot young women…
Interesting dream, uh, story you told…
Everyone involved is so deeply shallow. Hoping they all find a real way to live.
Most will go to their grave believing that they have found the way to live.
Like attracts like
The way social media impacts human behavior = 🤮🤮🤮
Oh, Mary Beth, fly-in-girls have existed since the days of stone tablets; they just asked for the tail number of a palanquin.
😂 The archetype is ancient, you are correct. It’s just plain as day in our faces now and wears the disguise of success in the form of likes/engagement. I think role models are getting worse and worse for young women as a result.
And you'd have been Palanquinn Larrabee
Yes, but most of us didn’t have to see it before social media.
Social media just brings out the desperate….
Read that and started caressing my wedding ring while muttering "my preciousssss"
"Art is anything you can get away with."
> the general rule of thumb is that Bretts with a .1% net worth have a .1% chance of having sex with a fly-in girl, and the chances of a Brett with a .01% net worth improve to 1%.
I seriously doubt that... Especially since those Bretts could just switch to downright call girls if they aren't getting any under those fly-girl arrangements. Sounds more like of the idea someone would have about Bretts to be able to make those fly-girls more manipulative entrepener-ey and less for-sale.
Agreed. I can’t imagine this continuing if the odds are this bad. “Mid dude with unearned money” isn’t the same as “total fucking retard unable to learn from experience.” I also don’t doubt that these dudes do get scammed a good amount.
Another thing I can’t imagine, is that these types of girls are even really bothered by letting these dudes grind on them for 2-5 minutes every other night or whatever. How many 45 year old libidos are even that high anymore? If these chicks are mercenary enough to play hardball on negotiations, I doubt they feel the need to guard their pussies that closely. Also, it sounds less awkward than trying to spend an entire vacation avoiding the guy who flew her out lol. I’ve seen chicks fuck for a lot less than vacations.
Yeah, "they fly them over but don't get to ... them" is total Disney level wishful thinking.
Hmmm. Most dudes think with their small heads..
Not nearly to the hyperbolic extent OP describes
I met so many fly-in girls on my two-year vagabond adventure. Good for them. They're having such a good time.
I’m shocked by how accurate the description of Brett tracks. In my experience, Brett will pay 💰 for the smallest validation. And assume you love him. After one conversation. Unfortunately, no amount of money is worth putting up with a Brett’s obnoxious personality.
I’ll have to take your word for that…
Weird comment.
The beauty of free markets.
Get that bag Olya